In today's episode of Wife'd Up, Now What? hosts Koe and TK discuss the power that women possess in persuasion and words. They acknowledge that while some women may misuse this power to emasculate men or manipulate them financially, there is a better path to be taken. Let's look at how women can utilize their power of persuasion, femininity, grace, and nurturing to build up their partners.
The Impact of Positive Words:
The speaker shares a personal anecdote about helping a man regain confidence and purpose by using positive words. This story highlights the significant impact uplifting language can have on someone's life. It is a reminder to use our words to inspire and encourage those around us.
Acknowledging Both Successes and Failures:
The speaker mentions that they have nothing to be ashamed of discussing. They emphasize the importance of embracing all aspects of our lives, including our credit scores. They express a desire to improve their credit score to have a positive conversation about their efforts when it comes up in dating.
Setting High Expectations:
While hoping that their husband doesn't watch this episode, the speaker acknowledges that it sets high expectations for a relationship. It reveals the aspiration for a loving and committed partnership that lasts a lifetime, humorously referred to as "wifey for lifey."
Addressing the Reality of Black Marriages:
The show not only aims to have engaging conversations but also focuses on the statistics surrounding black marriages. Rather than dwelling on the negative aspects, the speaker emphasizes the importance of offering practical solutions.
Establishing Routines and Neural Paths:
To boost confidence and readiness, the speaker suggests having routines in place. By consistently repeating actions, new neural paths are formed in the brain, leading to improved habits and a sense of comfort.
The Importance of Wise Counsel:
The speaker emphasizes the significance of surrounding oneself with wise counsel. They caution against associating with individuals who cheat on their partners, as their behavior can influence and compromise one's own values. Instead, finding role models who have been loyal to their spouses for a long time is essential.
Conversations About Realities:
Ellevate Media aims to provide wise counsel to those who may not have positive influences in their lives. Honest conversations about the realities of life, including mistakes and challenges, are crucial. It helps individuals realize that they are not alone and that everyone faces hurdles in their relationships.
The Illusion of Social Media:
The speaker reminds viewers that social media creates an illusion of perfection, showcasing only the positive aspects of people's lives. This can lead to the misconception that one's own relationship is the only one with problems. It is important to remember that all couples face difficulties, and seeking support is essential.
Sexual Activity and Compatibility:
The speaker challenges the notion that there are no good men, suggesting that women may not give them a chance to prove themselves. Engaging in sexual activity too quickly can lead to misunderstandings. They caution against mistaking sexual compatibility for compatibility in other aspects of the relationship. Prioritizing intellectual, spiritual, moral, and core values compatibility can prevent disappointment.
Embracing Emotional Maturity:
Emotional stability is often overlooked in relationship discussions, but it is crucial for productive conversations and growth. Reflecting on past destructive conversations, the speaker acknowledges that their lack of emotional and mental growth caused harm. Striving for emotional maturity and supporting their partner's growth, even when it's not about them, is key to a successful marriage.
Open Communication About Marriage:
Many women tend to avoid conversations about marriage and instead hope and pray for their partner to propose. The speaker stresses the importance of open communication on this topic. They share stories of women in long-term relationships who have never discussed marriage. They highlight the need for open dialogue to avoid misunderstandings and unmet expectations.
The Cultural Shift Towards Casual Intimacy:
The episode discusses the cultural shift towards casual intimacy, particularly impacting black individuals. It highlights the need to openly discuss the negative consequences of this shift, such as "soul ties," diseases, and emotional repercussions.
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